Who knew there was an actual love language? When I think of how I let my kids know I love them, I think of the words I say or the hugs I give. Some kids, however, do not thrive just on hugs and words. Gary D. Chapman analyzes the way kids receive love in his book, "The Five Love Languages of Children." Published by Moody Publishing, Gary Chapman has a collection of books that explain the different love languages pertaining to children, teenagers and in marriage.